Being a woman in this
world for 39 years, I have a fair amount of personal opinion on how it
can
feel to be one. Were do I begin. What better place than the beginning.
As little baby girls are taught almost immediately how being cute and
pretty is "important". Then as young girls
we have dolls and animated movies of females that are usually
considered perfect by a worldly standards. As we approach or adolescent
years, a time that can be a highly insecure point in our life, what with
hormones raging. At that time we are bombarded with
television shows, movies and advertisements that tell us how oh so
important our looks are. How about that, all in the name of making a
buck.
The Results of this warped societal standard are eating
disorders, growing number of plastic surgery in adults & teens,
depression, low self esteem, females looking at each other as
competition instead of with love. theses are a few of the results of
being a women in this world. One could say well don't participate in it
but in a world ruled a good amount of time on looks it can be a
challenge not to fall prey at times.
Going on into your adulthood
and still continually being bombarded by social media as to what beauty
is some women start to self loaf themselves, and who could blame them
with all the above mentioned degrading us. we also get rated by some men
as if we were a piece of meat. (We are a living breathing human beings
with feelings that are coincidentally stomped on when were
are made to feel like our looks are what makes up the majority of
who we are.) Even the most "confident and
strong" woman feel the wrath of the superficial nature that has been
created by someone who more than likely did not fit the standard
themselves, oh what irony.
Now approaching the aging women, this is a
time when we should feel we lived a good life and hopefully added
goodness to the world. We should be loving our bodies after all it gave
us our children. We should be looked at as well for all the wisdom and
inner beauty we attained in our life time,but again we are made to feel
that we are old and hold less worth because our looks are fading, so
sad. I'm not saying this is every persons thoughts or that this is the
most detrimental issue in the world, it is an issue though that brings
on pain & quite frankly pain is pain how ever you want to look at
it.
There needs to be a change in how we woman are seen not only by societal measures but also by woman themselves.
My
point is that as woman we need to strive for being healthy both
mentally and physically meaning eating healthy, exercising, being
confident in who you are no matter what unrealistic standard the world
has told us we need to be.
You are a beautiful human being in every way.
Love this!!!
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